By Last Updated: August 10th, 2025

Memorial Releases: Celebrating a Life After Loss

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Key Takeaways

  • Memorial releases help families let go of grief and symbolize the deceased leaving the earthly realm
  • There are various types of memorial releases to choose from. Some are more environmentally friendly than others
  • Opal cremation assists with planning and offers all-inclusive, affordable, direct cremation packages in Southern California

There are many ways to acknowledge and celebrate a life well-lived. Memorial keepsakes, memorial gardens, and cremation fireworks are just a few of the options.

Another popular method is the memorial release, a gift to the deceased and a means of releasing grief and beginning the healing process. The release can take place on behalf of a loved one who has passed, or group releases can be arranged. Read on to discover more about memorial releases for funerals and cremation.

Opal Cremation understands that losing a loved one is difficult, and we can help you through it. We provide affordable cremation in Los Angeles and planning assistance for celebration of life ceremonies. Contact us to learn more about what we offer.

What is the Origin of Memorial Releases?

Memorial releases are significant in mourning. They symbolize the release of grief and the deceased’s departure from earthly life. Unlike formal funerals, memorial releases can be held at any time after a loved one’s death and can accompany direct cremation or more formal services.

The origin of memorial releases, specifically the release of doves, stretches back 5,000 years to ancient Egypt. Chinese, European, Greek, and Roman civilizations also adopted the practice. Dove releases were used for funerals, weddings, and other important life events.

Nowadays, butterflies, balloons, and paper boats are becoming popular memorial release themes.

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There are companies that help with memorial release planning, but avoid those that overcharge, preying on families when they are most vulnerable. As a licensed cremation provider, we can help you find reliable vendors and assist with the planning process.

Below are some popular memorial release ideas. As you’ll see, there’s a wide variety to choose from, and pros and cons to consider.

memorial release of white doves

Dove Releases

The dove has long been a symbol of purity and peace. In the context of a memorial, they take on an even deeper meaning and can symbolize the release of the loved one from their physical life and the beginning of the grieving and healing process for those who survive them.

“It’s a loved one leaving this earth guided by a past loved one. It will take them on to the next life.”

Haley Hullings, owner of Dove-Ine Experiences, in a News 8 WROC report, Couple Creates Environmentally-Friendly Memorials

Paper Boat Releases

There are several advantages to a paper boat release. Friends and family can each create their own paper boat and pen a message to the departed within its folds. Paper is environmentally friendly, and the release can happen wherever there’s a body of water, be it an ocean, lake, or river.

Wildflower Release

Spreading wildflower seeds is an excellent, longer-term means of remembering the departed. The seeding area can be revisited as the flowers grow and the butterflies they attract and feed add a hopeful – and environmentally friendly – dimension to the memorial.

Lantern Release

Releasing hot air-filled lanterns as a memorial to a loved one is particularly evocative. There’s no denying the beauty and serenity of watching the warm glow of a lantern as it slowly drifts up and away. However, this option has some downsides, as the lanterns are a potential fire hazard.

memorial release of butterflies

Butterfly Releases

Like dove releases, butterfly releases can symbolize transition. There are seasonal limitations on these releases since butterflies need warmth to survive. A significant bonus to butterfly releases is their positive environmental effect, since butterflies are pollinators.

Balloon Release

This is a very popular form of memorial release that, like lantern releases, can create an especially powerful memory to associate with the passing of a loved one. However, it should be noted that balloon releases can have a negative environmental impact. We’ll discuss that in the next section.

Contact Opal Cremation to determine the best memorial release for your loved one. We will help you through the process, offering affordable cremation packages in Orange County and Los Angeles, and providing planning assistance. Call us to speak to a representative about your options.

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Potential Risks of Memorial Releases

You should be aware of a few downsides to some of the memorial release options. They are especially prevalent when you release unnatural elements into the environment. Risks include:

  • Litter: Litter occurs when balloons and lanterns return to earth
  • Wildlife Harm: Animals can become sick or injured if they get entangled in foreign objects or accidentally ingest them
  • Power outages: Mylar balloons conduct electricity and can cause power outages when they encounter electric lines

“Cattlemen say the baby calves eat them (balloons), and they get lodged in their intestines, which causes medical problems for the farm animals. It always ends up in our waterways, which affects our fishermen.”

Representative John Illg from the article Ballon Release Ban Bill to Be Voted on Monday, Stirring Debate Over Grief and Environmental Harm

Are There Eco-Friendly Memorial Release Ideas?

Fortunately, there are eco-friendly release ideas to choose from. For example:

  • Butterflies are especially beneficial to the environment as they are active pollinators
  • Ladybugs eat aphids and other pests that damage or kill beneficial plants
  • Wildflower releases plant seeds, which benefit the environment
Release TypeSustainability
Dove ReleaseDoves are natural wildlife and will not harm the environment
Paper Boat ReleaseWhile paper in the water is not ideal, it is biodegradable
Wildflower ReleaseLeads to flower growth, which benefits the environment
Lantern ReleaseCauses litter and is a potential fire hazard
Butterfly ReleaseAn eco-friendly choice, as butterflies are great pollinators
Balloon ReleaseCauses litter; Mylar balloons can cause power outages

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A memorial release should be a therapeutic process. Avoid stressful overplanning and worrying about who to invite. Concentrate on a simple ceremony that feels right to you and your loved one.

Opal Cremation Offers Planning Services and Direct Cremation Near Me

Opal Cremation recognizes that the death of a loved one is an overwhelmingly emotional experience. Our goal is to provide a helping hand to the departed’s family and friends. We offer several all-inclusive packages for cremation services that are customizable to each client’s needs.

Our dedicated team is ready to help you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Arranging cremation can be done entirely over the phone. Opal Cremation will guide you through every step of the process.

Unlike many other funeral homes, we never charge hidden fees, keeping cremation costs in California low. Our all-inclusive packages start at $1295, and the price you’re quoted is the price you pay. Our services include documentation, like death certificates and disposition permits, care for your loved one’s remains, coordination of the cremation process, planning support for personalized services, and ongoing communication.

For more information, you can visit our support center. There, you’ll find a list of frequently asked questions regarding cremation and other helpful information, like our Celebration of Life Resources, where you can find out more about memorial releases and other options for commemorating your loved one.

Contact us to find out why we are the best cremation company in Southern California.

FAQs

How long after someone dies do they have a celebration of life?

A celebration of life can occur days, weeks, months, or years after someone dies. Some families host ongoing celebrations to honor the person on the anniversary of their death.

What is the difference between a memorial and a celebration of life?

A memorial service is typically formal and somber. A celebration of life is upbeat, personalized, and casual, focusing on the deceased’s positive attributes.

How do I announce a celebration of life?

Your announcement should be simple so as not to belittle the death, nor to promote feelings of grief. Here is a good example:

“Please join us for a memorial service to celebrate the life of (X) on (date, time) at (location). Bring your fondest memories to share with families and friends.”

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